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One of those sleepless nights and sadness-filled mornings
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<blockquote data-quote="nlj" data-source="post: 641045" data-attributes="member: 17650"><p>I'm sorry you've had such a rough time with your ex's family Tired. My ex's aunt is the only one who has kept in touch with me or my children, but it is useful to be kept up to date with bereavements and so on and it is good that the children have one link to their father's family. Actually I have always thought that one of the best things about getting divorced was that I was no longer related to his parents or siblings as I'd had such negative hassle from them throughout my first marriage! Apart from the one aunt, I've never heard from any of them. Hurrah!</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes, this time of year is tough. It's very hard to not think of him, when I am cold even in my centrally-heated house. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Thanks RE. I've been out, keeping busy, doing some shopping for christmas presents and bought a pile of thermal socks for my son. I'm thinking of driving to the squat tomorrow morning, with the socks, a flask of coffee and a bag of pastries. I'm not sure if this is a good idea or not yet. I'm working this evening so won't really have a chance to talk it through with H, but I think I'll probably go, as it's what I want to do. I hope I'll find him as I haven't been able to get hold of him on his phone. I know hot coffee, pastries and thermal socks isn't a magic cure for depression, but it might help a bit (and it'll help me feel that I've done something useful).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nlj, post: 641045, member: 17650"] I'm sorry you've had such a rough time with your ex's family Tired. My ex's aunt is the only one who has kept in touch with me or my children, but it is useful to be kept up to date with bereavements and so on and it is good that the children have one link to their father's family. Actually I have always thought that one of the best things about getting divorced was that I was no longer related to his parents or siblings as I'd had such negative hassle from them throughout my first marriage! Apart from the one aunt, I've never heard from any of them. Hurrah! Yes, this time of year is tough. It's very hard to not think of him, when I am cold even in my centrally-heated house. Thanks RE. I've been out, keeping busy, doing some shopping for christmas presents and bought a pile of thermal socks for my son. I'm thinking of driving to the squat tomorrow morning, with the socks, a flask of coffee and a bag of pastries. I'm not sure if this is a good idea or not yet. I'm working this evening so won't really have a chance to talk it through with H, but I think I'll probably go, as it's what I want to do. I hope I'll find him as I haven't been able to get hold of him on his phone. I know hot coffee, pastries and thermal socks isn't a magic cure for depression, but it might help a bit (and it'll help me feel that I've done something useful). [/QUOTE]
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