Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
One way to get difficult child to leave house without me actually having to move
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="nlj" data-source="post: 636362" data-attributes="member: 17650"><p>Your daughter seems to think that it's more her home than yours. Your recent posts about her awful friends staying in your home without your leave suggest that she has no respect for you, no respect for your home and no respect for any boundaries. </p><p></p><p>Will she just assume that, if you are moving, then she will move with you? Does she think it is your 'job' to provide her with a home and food etc? Rather than her questions being "When are <em>you </em>moving? Where are <em>you </em>moving", will they be "When are <em>we </em>moving? Where are <em>we </em>moving?". I'm not sure that pretending to move will get rid of her. I think you need to find the strength to stand up for your own rights in your own home and give her a deadline to move out.</p><p></p><p>It's not healthy for either of you to be living together like this. You say that your daughter is not a bad person, but she is a bad person in your home. Maybe you can have hope that, if she stands on her own two feet and finds her own place to live, then maybe your relationship will improve.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nlj, post: 636362, member: 17650"] Your daughter seems to think that it's more her home than yours. Your recent posts about her awful friends staying in your home without your leave suggest that she has no respect for you, no respect for your home and no respect for any boundaries. Will she just assume that, if you are moving, then she will move with you? Does she think it is your 'job' to provide her with a home and food etc? Rather than her questions being "When are [I]you [/I]moving? Where are [I]you [/I]moving", will they be "When are [I]we [/I]moving? Where are [I]we [/I]moving?". I'm not sure that pretending to move will get rid of her. I think you need to find the strength to stand up for your own rights in your own home and give her a deadline to move out. It's not healthy for either of you to be living together like this. You say that your daughter is not a bad person, but she is a bad person in your home. Maybe you can have hope that, if she stands on her own two feet and finds her own place to live, then maybe your relationship will improve. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
One way to get difficult child to leave house without me actually having to move
Top