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One way to get difficult child to leave house without me actually having to move
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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 636547" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>GM, I hope this isn't insensitive, but how on earth can you say you are afraid of her to the point of fearing for your safety if you evict her, and still say she's not a bad person? If she's capable of actually physically injuring you because she's mad at you - she's not a good person.</p><p> </p><p>But my opinion there is not the issue I suppose. </p><p> </p><p>When is your lease up? The easiest thing to do is simply find a new ONE bedroom and move. Second easiest is to move out - short-term, and then institute the eviction. She'll have the place to herself while it's in progress. If your state is like mine though, it's not that easy to get someone out, even with a judgment. Another choice is to simply break your lease. Talk to the landlord. Explain the situation. See if they'll let you out early...or perhaps even move to a different unit of theirs and just change to lease to the new place? Finally, if you evict her and stay in the home, you really can call the police if she gets violent and they'll remove her. You don't have to stay in a domestic violence situation because of some landlord/tenant problem. </p><p> </p><p>For that matter, what would actually happen if you just boxed her stuff up, set it on the front step and changed the locks while she was gone one day? I've always wondered that, when some of you say you'd have to legally evict a difficult child. I could just boot mine out the door and toss his stuff out after him where I live.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 636547, member: 17309"] GM, I hope this isn't insensitive, but how on earth can you say you are afraid of her to the point of fearing for your safety if you evict her, and still say she's not a bad person? If she's capable of actually physically injuring you because she's mad at you - she's not a good person. But my opinion there is not the issue I suppose. When is your lease up? The easiest thing to do is simply find a new ONE bedroom and move. Second easiest is to move out - short-term, and then institute the eviction. She'll have the place to herself while it's in progress. If your state is like mine though, it's not that easy to get someone out, even with a judgment. Another choice is to simply break your lease. Talk to the landlord. Explain the situation. See if they'll let you out early...or perhaps even move to a different unit of theirs and just change to lease to the new place? Finally, if you evict her and stay in the home, you really can call the police if she gets violent and they'll remove her. You don't have to stay in a domestic violence situation because of some landlord/tenant problem. For that matter, what would actually happen if you just boxed her stuff up, set it on the front step and changed the locks while she was gone one day? I've always wondered that, when some of you say you'd have to legally evict a difficult child. I could just boot mine out the door and toss his stuff out after him where I live. [/QUOTE]
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