Just sharing ~ mon. kept busy with all of you on the site tue. 5:00am news ~ police find car that matches description of my difficult child's girlfriend's car. it has been torched and there is a body inside. The license plates and vin # have been removed. They don't know if body is male or female. Long story short-I called sherrif, I couldn't get a definite it's not your son until 2:00. All these panic feelings, I ended the day driving by mcdonalds to see if he was at work, he was. I had all these conflicting thoughts. That mother's heart came busting through the detachment, not good. wed. difficult child shows up at easy child's school.Hanging out with his old difficult child buddies (the one's still in school) they had skipped and difficult child told easy child he was skipping with them easy child asked him what he was skipping from ( score one for easy child! ) She was very angry, I was very angry he was there. Anger helps detachment ALOT!! thur. so busy at shop, no time to dwell on difficult child. fri. so busy at shop, no time again. All in all, this week went okay, except tues. Hopefully this will get easier and easier. I will continue to post and I thank all of you again for your insight.