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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 723178" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>She is a thief so she wont pay you back.</p><p></p><p>I would have called the police on her long ago. I love all my kids with all my heart, but dont break the law under my roof or I will make you pay the cosequences. Even my drug using daughter knew better than to steal from me. I called the cops on her at fifteen for pot. And made her leave at 19 for using drugs in my house. Not saying it works for all, but she had tough love and quit her nonsense at 19, when she was told to leave. I cried forever, but it worked. Twelve years later...all is well. She is doing nicely still.</p><p></p><p>I feel you let this adult daughter get away with murder. Why does she have to ever be in your home? Why should you need to lock up your stuff in your own home?</p><p></p><p>I am glad you are moving.</p><p></p><p>As for social media, i dont like it and quit using it. You can use it without disclosing anything personal if you like. If you want to, block daughter from social media, especially if she is inappropriate. But dont stress too much over FB. Its not worth it. FB is not a big deal. Dont stress over it. You can stop using it and your life will not change. I dont miss it.</p><p></p><p>I hope your time in a new place gives you the peace and serenity to get yourself back and start caring about you first. Your daughter needs to grow up and she wont if you dont get out of her way, even if she throws an adult toddler fit. Get back to who you are, what you like to do, how you enjoy pampering yourself. Thrn do it! Its your time now!</p><p></p><p>And nurture your marriage and other kind friends and family. You dont need daughter's childish drama and she doesnt grow up when you throw money you dont have at her out of false guilt. She will do better without the Big Macs and she is able bodied and capable of supporting herself, like 99% of adults her age do without Mom's last dime.</p><p></p><p>Let her know the Bank of Mom is closed forever. Then give her over to your higher power. This is not something you can fix, although I know you wish you could.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 723178, member: 1550"] She is a thief so she wont pay you back. I would have called the police on her long ago. I love all my kids with all my heart, but dont break the law under my roof or I will make you pay the cosequences. Even my drug using daughter knew better than to steal from me. I called the cops on her at fifteen for pot. And made her leave at 19 for using drugs in my house. Not saying it works for all, but she had tough love and quit her nonsense at 19, when she was told to leave. I cried forever, but it worked. Twelve years later...all is well. She is doing nicely still. I feel you let this adult daughter get away with murder. Why does she have to ever be in your home? Why should you need to lock up your stuff in your own home? I am glad you are moving. As for social media, i dont like it and quit using it. You can use it without disclosing anything personal if you like. If you want to, block daughter from social media, especially if she is inappropriate. But dont stress too much over FB. Its not worth it. FB is not a big deal. Dont stress over it. You can stop using it and your life will not change. I dont miss it. I hope your time in a new place gives you the peace and serenity to get yourself back and start caring about you first. Your daughter needs to grow up and she wont if you dont get out of her way, even if she throws an adult toddler fit. Get back to who you are, what you like to do, how you enjoy pampering yourself. Thrn do it! Its your time now! And nurture your marriage and other kind friends and family. You dont need daughter's childish drama and she doesnt grow up when you throw money you dont have at her out of false guilt. She will do better without the Big Macs and she is able bodied and capable of supporting herself, like 99% of adults her age do without Mom's last dime. Let her know the Bank of Mom is closed forever. Then give her over to your higher power. This is not something you can fix, although I know you wish you could. [/QUOTE]
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