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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 29933" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>We've had several discussions with-our easy child on that topic and she says she's not resentful. I highly doubt that! :grin: She has admitted that she is careful not to say or do things sometimes to upset us because she doesn't want to add to the chaos, but she doesn't see it as being a burden. She's a "pleaser" personality anyway. That's both good and bad.</p><p>She has such a diff personality from our difficult child there is no way I'd project onto her. She is almost literally perfect, and in fact, one of the reasons it's so difficult to cope with-our difficult child... she gave us an unrealistic set of expecations! She sings where ever she goes, and when we'd take her on vacations when she was very small, complete strangers would comment on how delightful and charming she was. People just love her cheerful attitude. I often tell her I can learn from her upbeat attitude.</p><p>Her only minuses are that she is very, very messy, and she is always late. A true artist. (sigh) :whistle:</p><p>Strangely enough, our difficult child is usually on time and very time conscious. One of those Aspie attributes, I suspect. :smirk:</p><p>It is important to pay attention to every child individually, and this is a good idea for a discussion topic. Thank you, Mikey!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 29933, member: 3419"] We've had several discussions with-our easy child on that topic and she says she's not resentful. I highly doubt that! [img]:grin:[/img] She has admitted that she is careful not to say or do things sometimes to upset us because she doesn't want to add to the chaos, but she doesn't see it as being a burden. She's a "pleaser" personality anyway. That's both good and bad. She has such a diff personality from our difficult child there is no way I'd project onto her. She is almost literally perfect, and in fact, one of the reasons it's so difficult to cope with-our difficult child... she gave us an unrealistic set of expecations! She sings where ever she goes, and when we'd take her on vacations when she was very small, complete strangers would comment on how delightful and charming she was. People just love her cheerful attitude. I often tell her I can learn from her upbeat attitude. Her only minuses are that she is very, very messy, and she is always late. A true artist. (sigh) [img]:whistle:[/img] Strangely enough, our difficult child is usually on time and very time conscious. One of those Aspie attributes, I suspect. [img]:smirk:[/img] It is important to pay attention to every child individually, and this is a good idea for a discussion topic. Thank you, Mikey! [/QUOTE]
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