I'm just wondering what you all think, do you allow this? I don't have a problem with it. After spending so many years dealing with difficult child, my 2 younger easy child's can pretty much do anything and it's fine with me, my bar is set so low. I'm just wondering....my 2 younger boys are 19 and 17, the 19 year old has had a girlfriend for a year, but my 17 year old is in his room right now with a 25 year old woman. husband says..."Yeah, Go easy child!" but he's not here and he said I should leave them alone. I'm usually not at a loss for what to do, but at the moment I am. I feel strange saying, "Leave the door open". (19 year old and girlfriend very responsible, she was her class validictorian of 1,000, I don't have a problem with that) (although once he told her not to worry if they ever had a baby "by accident" ...."my mom loves babies, she'll take care of it" he said!!! LOL!!!!