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My friend called yesterday to tell me about a 12 week program at her weight loss center for kids 9-13. Apparently it focuses on healthy eating, reading labels, peer pressure, etc. It's also FREE. This is not a diet per se, no packaged foods or any of that.
husband thinks this could harm manster's self esteem. That we will be labeling him one of the fat kids. He's borderline. Yes, he IS overweight but getting taller and looking a bit better. He's so sensitive to how we perceive him. He doesn't want to be singled out in any way and I don't want to cause more harm.
Of course he doesn't want to go. Tells me he already knows how to read labels, etc. What he needs is to hear alternative ways for dealing with stress, feelings and the cravings/sugar addiction. This is the part that I think could benefit him.
So what do you think. Should I honor his request not to go or use my "I'm the mom and in charge" voice and drag him there? Do you think this may offer enough benefit to risk his self esteem taking a hit? I'm not sure he sees himself as a "fat kid" and will this just put more labeling on him?
Thanks
husband thinks this could harm manster's self esteem. That we will be labeling him one of the fat kids. He's borderline. Yes, he IS overweight but getting taller and looking a bit better. He's so sensitive to how we perceive him. He doesn't want to be singled out in any way and I don't want to cause more harm.
Of course he doesn't want to go. Tells me he already knows how to read labels, etc. What he needs is to hear alternative ways for dealing with stress, feelings and the cravings/sugar addiction. This is the part that I think could benefit him.
So what do you think. Should I honor his request not to go or use my "I'm the mom and in charge" voice and drag him there? Do you think this may offer enough benefit to risk his self esteem taking a hit? I'm not sure he sees himself as a "fat kid" and will this just put more labeling on him?
Thanks