Help!!!! I have a daughter who is now 12 and has been described as "strong willed" since she was about 4. She is a middle child that has tested her father and myself to our limits too many times. She tries to use her medical condition as a way to get what she wants and when that doesn't help she goes into her rages, defying what she is told to do and gets nasty. All my friends and neighbors (whose kids are all younger than mine) believe she is just a normal kids testing the waters. I've already raised one child and while we had the "normal" childhood behavior I never felt the need to just escape as I do with my daughter. Looking for someplace that I can go to vent when things get to be just too much around here and I escapte to my room to hide and cry. Any advice would be appreciated.