dashcat
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He has been diagnosed with prostrate cancer.
It's true that I've been mighty ticked at him - especially recently - but I spent nearly 30 years with this man. I feel terrible for him.
He did say the prognosis is good. Iguess if you're going to get prostrate cancer, this is the kind you want. Still.
He has not decided when or IF to tell difficult child. I do understand where he's coming from ... to a point. He said the minute he tells her it will become all about her. He also knows that she'll blab to anyone/everyone and he really doesn't want the word out. I get that, too. Still, and this is the great abyss that separates Ossy and me in our thinking ... I think it's better to be uncomfortable for a short time than risk the consequences that can result from secrecy. What if something happensin surgery?
It's out of my hands ...all of it. I hope and pray that he will be ok.
Dash
It's true that I've been mighty ticked at him - especially recently - but I spent nearly 30 years with this man. I feel terrible for him.
He did say the prognosis is good. Iguess if you're going to get prostrate cancer, this is the kind you want. Still.
He has not decided when or IF to tell difficult child. I do understand where he's coming from ... to a point. He said the minute he tells her it will become all about her. He also knows that she'll blab to anyone/everyone and he really doesn't want the word out. I get that, too. Still, and this is the great abyss that separates Ossy and me in our thinking ... I think it's better to be uncomfortable for a short time than risk the consequences that can result from secrecy. What if something happensin surgery?
It's out of my hands ...all of it. I hope and pray that he will be ok.
Dash