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<blockquote data-quote="Megs87" data-source="post: 722936" data-attributes="member: 22386"><p>Here I am again, lost, feeling helpless, and alone. I have posted several times now about my daughter but incase you have not read ill explain it all again. My 7year old daughter has impulse problems, anger/anxiety, lack of empathy for others, and is very social but utterly sucks at it. Her impulse control and fits of rage will at times understandably run friends or potential friends away. Or the parents will understandably be reluctant to allow their kids to play with her. That's ok, because if the parents are not used to a child like her, or have some sort of knowledge about it all, i would kind of rather them and their kids stay away. I hope that doesn't sound to harsh on the parent or their kid. I am so stressed out and sick of kids messing with my girl to get a rise out of her because they think its funny to see a child react in such an extreme way. But you know what gets me the most? They don't find it very funny when her, "lack of empathy" and, "impulse control" emerge. They love to trigger it but not get it up upclose first hand. I am sick of un understanding moms or dads, (mostly moms) confronting me about what my child did to theirs!! then i hear how their child was being an A**Hole to mine. (Laughing at her for something she did or got in trouble for the day before ) or they'll tell other kids who are playing with her, not to play with her because she is mean, weird, stupid and much more. So then my child will immediately get upset and deny it which makes the other kids come at her harder. It almost always turns into the kid whos saying all those things running home crying because she threw something, got physical, said something mean or hateful and now whos feelings are hurt. My girl can take 20 steps forward and having a great day and all it takes is 1 kid bullying her and her reaction is so extreme, i now have a pissed off parent on the phone or at my door. I hate confrontation. It will litteraly make me ill. I want to buy a shirt that says, "i am not responsible for anything my autistic child does when provoked by your kid who knows better" when i say knows better i am not meaning a child that has never been around it, i am meaning the kids who are very much aware of her issues and still find it funny to push her buttons and then send their uninformed parent here threatening me. What do i do??? What do i say? I had a mom today tell me that my talks and couseling obviously isnt working. Shes sick of my child not having any consequences and that what she needs is a good ole fashioned ass whooping??? Really??? Lets beat the child for being physical with your child that wouldn't leave her alone and telling her she watches bad videos and he was going to tell everyone she does. The "bad video" was a music video that had people dancing. Yes i got on to her for listening to trashy music along with trashy video but its far from porn. At least that video was. Thanks for reading. Again, I'm very opened minded and want all opinions i can get. Unless it involves whooping her. She is not a candidate for spankings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Megs87, post: 722936, member: 22386"] Here I am again, lost, feeling helpless, and alone. I have posted several times now about my daughter but incase you have not read ill explain it all again. My 7year old daughter has impulse problems, anger/anxiety, lack of empathy for others, and is very social but utterly sucks at it. Her impulse control and fits of rage will at times understandably run friends or potential friends away. Or the parents will understandably be reluctant to allow their kids to play with her. That's ok, because if the parents are not used to a child like her, or have some sort of knowledge about it all, i would kind of rather them and their kids stay away. I hope that doesn't sound to harsh on the parent or their kid. I am so stressed out and sick of kids messing with my girl to get a rise out of her because they think its funny to see a child react in such an extreme way. But you know what gets me the most? They don't find it very funny when her, "lack of empathy" and, "impulse control" emerge. They love to trigger it but not get it up upclose first hand. I am sick of un understanding moms or dads, (mostly moms) confronting me about what my child did to theirs!! then i hear how their child was being an A**Hole to mine. (Laughing at her for something she did or got in trouble for the day before ) or they'll tell other kids who are playing with her, not to play with her because she is mean, weird, stupid and much more. So then my child will immediately get upset and deny it which makes the other kids come at her harder. It almost always turns into the kid whos saying all those things running home crying because she threw something, got physical, said something mean or hateful and now whos feelings are hurt. My girl can take 20 steps forward and having a great day and all it takes is 1 kid bullying her and her reaction is so extreme, i now have a pissed off parent on the phone or at my door. I hate confrontation. It will litteraly make me ill. I want to buy a shirt that says, "i am not responsible for anything my autistic child does when provoked by your kid who knows better" when i say knows better i am not meaning a child that has never been around it, i am meaning the kids who are very much aware of her issues and still find it funny to push her buttons and then send their uninformed parent here threatening me. What do i do??? What do i say? I had a mom today tell me that my talks and couseling obviously isnt working. Shes sick of my child not having any consequences and that what she needs is a good ole fashioned ass whooping??? Really??? Lets beat the child for being physical with your child that wouldn't leave her alone and telling her she watches bad videos and he was going to tell everyone she does. The "bad video" was a music video that had people dancing. Yes i got on to her for listening to trashy music along with trashy video but its far from porn. At least that video was. Thanks for reading. Again, I'm very opened minded and want all opinions i can get. Unless it involves whooping her. She is not a candidate for spankings. [/QUOTE]
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