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<blockquote data-quote="Heather52" data-source="post: 694552" data-attributes="member: 20312"><p>I had a mother in law from hell who we were forced to live with the first 2 years of our marriage. She was mean, nasty and horrible to live with but this same woman loved our two children , they were the centre of her universe. Even though I was mistreated by by her hands, I made sure that these children would have a long lasting relationship with her. My children benefitted. They loved and adored their Nana until she died. The memories they have are so incredible.</p><p></p><p>When I told my abusive daughter this story, her first reaction was Why did I allow the grandmother visits as she treated me so poorly. My response was my children benefitted , this wasn't about me, it was about my children. She vehemently said I did the wrong thing, but in my heart it was the right choice. It wasn't the same choice my daughter said she woukd have made. In other words put herself first and rob my children of a loving doting grandmother up to and until they were young adults. I'm so ashamed.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heather52, post: 694552, member: 20312"] I had a mother in law from hell who we were forced to live with the first 2 years of our marriage. She was mean, nasty and horrible to live with but this same woman loved our two children , they were the centre of her universe. Even though I was mistreated by by her hands, I made sure that these children would have a long lasting relationship with her. My children benefitted. They loved and adored their Nana until she died. The memories they have are so incredible. When I told my abusive daughter this story, her first reaction was Why did I allow the grandmother visits as she treated me so poorly. My response was my children benefitted , this wasn't about me, it was about my children. She vehemently said I did the wrong thing, but in my heart it was the right choice. It wasn't the same choice my daughter said she woukd have made. In other words put herself first and rob my children of a loving doting grandmother up to and until they were young adults. I'm so ashamed. [/QUOTE]
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