was for the most part, okay. wm, for the most part, was polite & behaved well toward the family....except toward kt & myself. (Apparently kt & I are not family in wm's mind ~ we're punching bags.) Then the bleep hit the fan. For all the safety plans I had in place wm couldn't/wouldn't keep his hands off his twin or me. The straw that broke me (the camel was broken long ago) was when wm put kt in a choke hold & wouldn't let go. kt was turning blue & my brothers had to pull him off kt. wm's excuse was "we were just rough housing ~ siblings get to do that". Not even close, son. It was a long trip home ~ wm rode with me while kt rode with my niece & almost nephew. I left a day early with wm; there was no reason to punish kt because wm didn't hold it together. Before you all ask, I can't see anything that set wm off. He's seen family on & off over the years. This past summer I took wm down to visit family one on one. In my mind, there will be no kt & wm once they become adults. The team is already looking into declaring him a vulnerable adult & placing him in a group home or some other facility. It is what it is. I'm done looking to see a healthy or at the very least a functioning wm. I just don't see it happening. There's been too much damage done to him before I even met him. Likely while still in the womb. Who knows? Thanks for the ear.