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<blockquote data-quote="dreamer" data-source="post: 6312" data-attributes="member: 1697"><p>I wish I could say I was going to keep trying to advocate change for all the kids coming behind us, but, I have been trying to do that for 12 years now here, and -I am tired. </p><p>I am grateful he is my youngest. My heart is broken that we cannot manage a move like we should have done years ago. I know for fact certain politicians etc are aware of what is gong on here, my son was in class with one politicians son, and that <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> is also a dear friend to my PCs mentor and to my best friends family, and he IS aware, </p><p></p><p>I am simply so battle weary and it has been brutal. </p><p>I wish, too, I could say tit had only been the schools, but it has been the docs, - when my oldest needed evaluations etc when she was a very extreme toddler, - we were told back then that children could not have serious mental illnesses, and we fought and we did bring some local change in the mindsets, but we finally moved out of our local area for our docs....then my son came along and this time it was heterotpoia and cerbal palsy and again ourfears were dismissed, docs said I was searching for something to be wrong with him....I took him out of area and got his diagnosis'es and treatment started....Ironically back then I was also helping our county beef up their senoir services, starting our alzheimers day care and our Hospice programs AND I was also very busy with helping with getting our military vetterans services going. </p><p></p><p>and then I got sick.</p><p></p><p>I am so tired. SO discouraged. </p><p>so weary. And I am becoming less and less able to cope with anyone being treated so poorly. I am seeing the outcomes of when ppl get treated this way, and ..it is just too hard for me to continue to fight.</p><p></p><p>I have little doubts our state has a good idea of much that is going on. Maybe it is so messed up noone knows quite where to start. For my oldest child it was all related toher mental illness and stereotypes, fears, stigmas related to that.....for my youngest child, I am not sure if it is all retaliation, or the nature of his disabilities or funding, or who knows....</p><p>BUt I think I am going to be using all my energies to educate my kids and help them reach their potentials. It could be quite a job, LOL, my kids have tested out pretty smart, LOL (even if I do say so myself) and they could keep me pretty busy. LOL. </p><p>It just really hurts me to have any people treat any other people this poorly anywhere in any context. Not educating her well is one thing, but....no, I just cannot do this anymore with the name calling etc. It happened to my dtr, it happens to a lesser degree to my easy child and now my lil guy and.....I just cannot do it. not anymore. I know my kids are not angels, no kid is, but....</p><p></p><p>OK I am sorry for rambling. THank you everyone for your kind words and support. Now that I am a little less stunned from these incidents, my son and I have begun to work and we are getting excited about it all. LOL, he is already telling me HE is gonna calculate how much wallpaper our hallway needs, and he is gonna use his fractions to do some holiday baking, converting recipes to omit the things he does not like.....and he wants to find out something about light (I did not understand) So, I guess we are hitting the ground running? <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dreamer, post: 6312, member: 1697"] I wish I could say I was going to keep trying to advocate change for all the kids coming behind us, but, I have been trying to do that for 12 years now here, and -I am tired. I am grateful he is my youngest. My heart is broken that we cannot manage a move like we should have done years ago. I know for fact certain politicians etc are aware of what is gong on here, my son was in class with one politicians son, and that :censored: is also a dear friend to my PCs mentor and to my best friends family, and he IS aware, I am simply so battle weary and it has been brutal. I wish, too, I could say tit had only been the schools, but it has been the docs, - when my oldest needed evaluations etc when she was a very extreme toddler, - we were told back then that children could not have serious mental illnesses, and we fought and we did bring some local change in the mindsets, but we finally moved out of our local area for our docs....then my son came along and this time it was heterotpoia and cerbal palsy and again ourfears were dismissed, docs said I was searching for something to be wrong with him....I took him out of area and got his diagnosis'es and treatment started....Ironically back then I was also helping our county beef up their senoir services, starting our alzheimers day care and our Hospice programs AND I was also very busy with helping with getting our military vetterans services going. and then I got sick. I am so tired. SO discouraged. so weary. And I am becoming less and less able to cope with anyone being treated so poorly. I am seeing the outcomes of when ppl get treated this way, and ..it is just too hard for me to continue to fight. I have little doubts our state has a good idea of much that is going on. Maybe it is so messed up noone knows quite where to start. For my oldest child it was all related toher mental illness and stereotypes, fears, stigmas related to that.....for my youngest child, I am not sure if it is all retaliation, or the nature of his disabilities or funding, or who knows.... BUt I think I am going to be using all my energies to educate my kids and help them reach their potentials. It could be quite a job, LOL, my kids have tested out pretty smart, LOL (even if I do say so myself) and they could keep me pretty busy. LOL. It just really hurts me to have any people treat any other people this poorly anywhere in any context. Not educating her well is one thing, but....no, I just cannot do this anymore with the name calling etc. It happened to my dtr, it happens to a lesser degree to my easy child and now my lil guy and.....I just cannot do it. not anymore. I know my kids are not angels, no kid is, but.... OK I am sorry for rambling. THank you everyone for your kind words and support. Now that I am a little less stunned from these incidents, my son and I have begun to work and we are getting excited about it all. LOL, he is already telling me HE is gonna calculate how much wallpaper our hallway needs, and he is gonna use his fractions to do some holiday baking, converting recipes to omit the things he does not like.....and he wants to find out something about light (I did not understand) So, I guess we are hitting the ground running? :-) [/QUOTE]
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