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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 11164" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>Alfie Kohn gave me some great answers about praise and self esteem. Often ODD kids don't have a problem of self esteem and ego. Research suggests that low self esteem is negative for a peson but high self esteem does not neccessary lead to positive or prosocial behavior . It depends on the ' self ' of the self esteem , how self centered the kid is. Boys that have high self esteem are often involved in risky sexual behavior , usually girls with low self esteem are involved in risky sexual behavior Praise is often interpreted as an attempt to control and manipulate one and ODD kids pick this up very quickly</p><p></p><p>5 reasons to stop saying - good job</p><p>the case against gold stars</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 11164, member: 10"] Hi, Alfie Kohn gave me some great answers about praise and self esteem. Often ODD kids don't have a problem of self esteem and ego. Research suggests that low self esteem is negative for a peson but high self esteem does not neccessary lead to positive or prosocial behavior . It depends on the ' self ' of the self esteem , how self centered the kid is. Boys that have high self esteem are often involved in risky sexual behavior , usually girls with low self esteem are involved in risky sexual behavior Praise is often interpreted as an attempt to control and manipulate one and ODD kids pick this up very quickly 5 reasons to stop saying - good job the case against gold stars Allan [/QUOTE]
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