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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 21074" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Sue C</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> So...she remains here and we are captive???? For how long? Forever? This is not right!!!</p><p></p><p>Sue</div></div> </p><p></p><p>I know this is not easy and it's hard to throw our difficult child's out, but this will continue forever if you allow it. I think at this point I would be very seriously telling husband that if she doesn't go, you will!! It sounds like the worse thing is that husband doesn't believe she can do anything for herself, so it's easier just to continue to do it all for her. You'd be amazed at what they can do for themselves when they have too. Tell her she has to leave, change the locks and if she wants to sit in the driveway and blow the horn, no wait a minute, lock the car doors and take the keys, then she won't have a horn to beep, so if she wants to stand outside and scream and swear, let her do it until the neighbors call the police. </p><p></p><p>She is calling all the shots and getting away with it. She will not change anything until she is forced too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 21074, member: 2442"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Sue C</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> So...she remains here and we are captive???? For how long? Forever? This is not right!!! Sue</div></div> I know this is not easy and it's hard to throw our difficult child's out, but this will continue forever if you allow it. I think at this point I would be very seriously telling husband that if she doesn't go, you will!! It sounds like the worse thing is that husband doesn't believe she can do anything for herself, so it's easier just to continue to do it all for her. You'd be amazed at what they can do for themselves when they have too. Tell her she has to leave, change the locks and if she wants to sit in the driveway and blow the horn, no wait a minute, lock the car doors and take the keys, then she won't have a horn to beep, so if she wants to stand outside and scream and swear, let her do it until the neighbors call the police. She is calling all the shots and getting away with it. She will not change anything until she is forced too. [/QUOTE]
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