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<blockquote data-quote="Sue C" data-source="post: 21105" data-attributes="member: 87"><p>Suz -- What do I want from you all? Comfort, understanding, a hug, a place to vent, unconditional love. We cannot leave the parking tickets for Melissa to pay. They are in husband's name. He must pay them or he will get in trouble (whatever happens to you if you don't, I don't know what that is). Yes, she needs to pay them but she won't. We can TRY to get the money back from her. That's all we can do. husband seems to think once she gets a job, she is miraculously going to improve. I don't see it.</p><p></p><p>Everyone's advice is good (and I don't mind hearing advice), but if husband is not willing to get on the same page as me, it is not helpful. Leaving my husband is not an option. I love him and do not want to leave him. I do not even want to leave him temporarily; and even if I did, I have no job and no money to do so.</p><p></p><p>I want to be able to come to the Board and post my feelings, what I'm going through, my cry for help, even if I can't take all your advice. I need to talk about these things to you guys. I have no one else to talk to. I don't want to be seen as a whiner. I don't want you to be frustrated with me because you've been hearing the same old, same old year after year. Please accept me and allow me to come to you all. I need you to understand my frustration and be understanding.</p><p></p><p>Remember how you all helped me with Angela? I did take your advice. We did throw her out on the streets. The difference there was that I finally had gotten my husband on the same page as me.</p><p></p><p>Do you understand how frustrated I am with Melissa?? Do you understand how I feel helpless?? But I got strong with Angela. I am not always a pushover. Please don't think less of me because I continue to post about the same things over and over with Melissa. I need to. I don't want to feel like I can't come to you guys when I need you.</p><p></p><p>PonyGirl -- Thanks for the offer, friend. I know you live in beautiful country.</p><p></p><p>Sue</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sue C, post: 21105, member: 87"] Suz -- What do I want from you all? Comfort, understanding, a hug, a place to vent, unconditional love. We cannot leave the parking tickets for Melissa to pay. They are in husband's name. He must pay them or he will get in trouble (whatever happens to you if you don't, I don't know what that is). Yes, she needs to pay them but she won't. We can TRY to get the money back from her. That's all we can do. husband seems to think once she gets a job, she is miraculously going to improve. I don't see it. Everyone's advice is good (and I don't mind hearing advice), but if husband is not willing to get on the same page as me, it is not helpful. Leaving my husband is not an option. I love him and do not want to leave him. I do not even want to leave him temporarily; and even if I did, I have no job and no money to do so. I want to be able to come to the Board and post my feelings, what I'm going through, my cry for help, even if I can't take all your advice. I need to talk about these things to you guys. I have no one else to talk to. I don't want to be seen as a whiner. I don't want you to be frustrated with me because you've been hearing the same old, same old year after year. Please accept me and allow me to come to you all. I need you to understand my frustration and be understanding. Remember how you all helped me with Angela? I did take your advice. We did throw her out on the streets. The difference there was that I finally had gotten my husband on the same page as me. Do you understand how frustrated I am with Melissa?? Do you understand how I feel helpless?? But I got strong with Angela. I am not always a pushover. Please don't think less of me because I continue to post about the same things over and over with Melissa. I need to. I don't want to feel like I can't come to you guys when I need you. PonyGirl -- Thanks for the offer, friend. I know you live in beautiful country. Sue [/QUOTE]
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