klmno
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and now I feel a little about about difficult child's "plan". He said if I would not take difficult child upon release that he would have to find another place for him to go. I stressed that I was not sayying that I never wanted difficult child to come back home to live, just that I thought he needed a transitional place in order to have a better chance of making it in mainstream and living at home. He asked me what exactly I thought being in a group home could give him. (The good news in that was that he referred to a group home- not being turned over to dss.) Anyway, we talked a bit about it and I'm going to wait until my meeting at Department of Juvenile Justice next week and see if they will provide family therapy while difficult child is in there- that will make a difference to me.
Also, they guy reassured me a little more that he wasn't like the probation officer- it will take a lot to get rid of my excess baggage over that B****. LOL!
He said he visited and met difficult child last week and that the people at Department of Juvenile Justice said that difficult child was one of the best kids they had in there! I complimented and thanked him for the pointers he gave me about gangs and bullies, which I had passed onto difficult child.
I also suggested that the kids coming out of Department of Juvenile Justice need some sort of support group lead by a parole officer or trained mentor. My feeling is that these kids going back into mainstream need time to be around other kids with similar backgrounds who are trying to adjust and stay out of trouble and they need to be able to voice the frustrations of it and get input from someone who can give them real-life advice of how to handle dealing with trying to make new friends and handle "real" school again, etc. He said he thought that was a good idea- but of course, they don't have that. (Well, geez, that would be a minimal cost to provide and may even be cheaper in the long run since instead of a private company being contracted by the hour to give individual mentoring or supervision is done, they could combine some of those for group meetings.)
Also, they guy reassured me a little more that he wasn't like the probation officer- it will take a lot to get rid of my excess baggage over that B****. LOL!
He said he visited and met difficult child last week and that the people at Department of Juvenile Justice said that difficult child was one of the best kids they had in there! I complimented and thanked him for the pointers he gave me about gangs and bullies, which I had passed onto difficult child.
I also suggested that the kids coming out of Department of Juvenile Justice need some sort of support group lead by a parole officer or trained mentor. My feeling is that these kids going back into mainstream need time to be around other kids with similar backgrounds who are trying to adjust and stay out of trouble and they need to be able to voice the frustrations of it and get input from someone who can give them real-life advice of how to handle dealing with trying to make new friends and handle "real" school again, etc. He said he thought that was a good idea- but of course, they don't have that. (Well, geez, that would be a minimal cost to provide and may even be cheaper in the long run since instead of a private company being contracted by the hour to give individual mentoring or supervision is done, they could combine some of those for group meetings.)