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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 758296" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Hi JMOM, Thank you again for your reply. I have not said one word to my daughter since July 27th, a few texts here and there but not one word. I have been doing a lot of thinking.. When I was around my daughter this last time, I felt as if I got kicked in the stomach several times, I actually started to bleed when I got home. Being around her was that toxic. I was reading about narcissistic behavior and how it goes hand and hand with bipolar or borderline. I read something very interesting that I want to share with all of you.~</p><p></p><ol> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Their intention is to disturb others with their emotional problems. While there can be other intentions they state, they really just want to disturb others. And that is so they can hide what they do in the background.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">They sound confident not because of what they say that moment, but because they are always hiding something. Any argument you have makes them feel more confident, because they this way they distract you even more from what they are hiding.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">They lie. And they constantly pretend, by playing drama , like something happened to them, or they have some worry. Anything they say is an excuse to hide something else.</li> </ol><p>This makes a lot of sense to me. My daughter is always so secretive.</p><p></p><p>I have backed off. My daughter and I were ok, working things out and then the boyfriend calls and knocks her mania into outer limits.</p><p>Then she tries to hide that she is back with him and gets very ugly with me. Abusive and cruel.</p><p>I agree and I know to detach with love.. Sometimes there is just so much a person can take.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 758296, member: 22416"] Hi JMOM, Thank you again for your reply. I have not said one word to my daughter since July 27th, a few texts here and there but not one word. I have been doing a lot of thinking.. When I was around my daughter this last time, I felt as if I got kicked in the stomach several times, I actually started to bleed when I got home. Being around her was that toxic. I was reading about narcissistic behavior and how it goes hand and hand with bipolar or borderline. I read something very interesting that I want to share with all of you.~ [LIST=1] [*]Their intention is to disturb others with their emotional problems. While there can be other intentions they state, they really just want to disturb others. And that is so they can hide what they do in the background. [*]They sound confident not because of what they say that moment, but because they are always hiding something. Any argument you have makes them feel more confident, because they this way they distract you even more from what they are hiding. [*]They lie. And they constantly pretend, by playing drama , like something happened to them, or they have some worry. Anything they say is an excuse to hide something else. [/LIST] This makes a lot of sense to me. My daughter is always so secretive. I have backed off. My daughter and I were ok, working things out and then the boyfriend calls and knocks her mania into outer limits. Then she tries to hide that she is back with him and gets very ugly with me. Abusive and cruel. I agree and I know to detach with love.. Sometimes there is just so much a person can take. [/QUOTE]
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