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Phone Calls from 34yo starting up again
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 663591" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is so true. I hate this part. That others judge and feel so superior to us. And then so completely free and virtuous when they turn their backs forever. I just hate it.</p><p>I like this idea.</p><p></p><p>Seeking, I would not open the door. Your son should he come to your home is an uninvited guest. I would not open the door to him, unless he were to call and together with your husband you decided to invite him.</p><p></p><p>Should he come to the house uninvited, I would have a plan in place of what room to go to and how to respond.</p><p></p><p>I know if it were my son he would go to all of the windows and doors and he would try to get in. I would be afraid, so I would confront him. It would not go well.</p><p></p><p>Think about a plan.</p><p></p><p>Seeking, this is not about an absence of love and care no matter who says this or even thinks it. It is its opposite.</p><p></p><p>I just hate that we have to endure the sticks and stones of others, or fear that they will come. Because they already have.</p><p></p><p>You are doing the right thing as parents. Standing up for the right thing for you and for him.</p><p></p><p>We are here for you.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 663591, member: 18958"] This is so true. I hate this part. That others judge and feel so superior to us. And then so completely free and virtuous when they turn their backs forever. I just hate it. I like this idea. Seeking, I would not open the door. Your son should he come to your home is an uninvited guest. I would not open the door to him, unless he were to call and together with your husband you decided to invite him. Should he come to the house uninvited, I would have a plan in place of what room to go to and how to respond. I know if it were my son he would go to all of the windows and doors and he would try to get in. I would be afraid, so I would confront him. It would not go well. Think about a plan. Seeking, this is not about an absence of love and care no matter who says this or even thinks it. It is its opposite. I just hate that we have to endure the sticks and stones of others, or fear that they will come. Because they already have. You are doing the right thing as parents. Standing up for the right thing for you and for him. We are here for you. COPA [/QUOTE]
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