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Phone Calls from 34yo starting up again
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 663596" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>I too have been on the receiving end of my son saying similar things. My son had not been on FB for a good six months then one day there is a post, it read "I'm so lonely, no one cares about me not even my other cares about me"</p><p>Don't let his words break your resolve.</p><p>I think it's great that you and your husband discuss him showing up at your front door. I find the "what if game" to be very helpful. I like having a plan in case my son does ever show up.</p><p></p><p>I really like Cedar's suggestion:</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>While it's good to have a plan I also believe it's healthy to limit the time spent on this. I value my peace and I know how easy it can be to allow my thoughts to become consumed with thoughts of my son and wondering where he is and will he show up here. When needed husband and I will discuss it for no more than 1/2 hour then that's it, we are done. It allows us to go on living our lives.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you.............................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 663596, member: 18516"] I too have been on the receiving end of my son saying similar things. My son had not been on FB for a good six months then one day there is a post, it read "I'm so lonely, no one cares about me not even my other cares about me" Don't let his words break your resolve. I think it's great that you and your husband discuss him showing up at your front door. I find the "what if game" to be very helpful. I like having a plan in case my son does ever show up. I really like Cedar's suggestion: While it's good to have a plan I also believe it's healthy to limit the time spent on this. I value my peace and I know how easy it can be to allow my thoughts to become consumed with thoughts of my son and wondering where he is and will he show up here. When needed husband and I will discuss it for no more than 1/2 hour then that's it, we are done. It allows us to go on living our lives. ((HUGS)) to you............................. [/QUOTE]
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