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Please help me my 38 year old son lives in our house and is on meth and heroin i need some help
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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 682469" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>This is an extra pain, but in some States it has to be done, adult children are considered tenants and have rights.UGH . For some, it has not been too difficult. You could probably find out how to do this by calling and getting more info. The point being, Laspnda, this is your home, your sanctuary.</p><p>The danger of having drug users (unfortunately our children) in our homes is also that we are legally responsible for the contents. So, if they have illegal substances, we could bear the brunt of that.</p><p></p><p>Irregardless of what happened to your daughter in the past, if she is of adult age and using drugs now, living in your home, this is not good. </p><p></p><p>By putting our foot down about this, we help our children. Otherwise, it is just a big never ending mess with all of us going down the drain. </p><p></p><p>I understand how hard this is, the suffering and depression of it. Just by your being here, shows me that you are tired of it and want change. This does not happen all at once. Take one small step at a time.</p><p></p><p>Children living at home using. Yes, I have been there. Eviction notice, no I didn't have to go through that, but it is required in our State. My niece did for her three children who graduated high school and started disrespecting her in her own home. I think she went to the police station to do it. </p><p></p><p>It is not impossible to obtain, just one step towards helping yourself out of this.</p><p> It is not fair to you to be living like this.</p><p></p><p>Take courage dear, you are staring at the pit, but you do not deserve to be in it. Take the steps you need to, one day at a time to find a solution. No one, no one deserves to taken down by the choices of adult children.</p><p></p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 682469, member: 19522"] This is an extra pain, but in some States it has to be done, adult children are considered tenants and have rights.UGH . For some, it has not been too difficult. You could probably find out how to do this by calling and getting more info. The point being, Laspnda, this is your home, your sanctuary. The danger of having drug users (unfortunately our children) in our homes is also that we are legally responsible for the contents. So, if they have illegal substances, we could bear the brunt of that. Irregardless of what happened to your daughter in the past, if she is of adult age and using drugs now, living in your home, this is not good. By putting our foot down about this, we help our children. Otherwise, it is just a big never ending mess with all of us going down the drain. I understand how hard this is, the suffering and depression of it. Just by your being here, shows me that you are tired of it and want change. This does not happen all at once. Take one small step at a time. Children living at home using. Yes, I have been there. Eviction notice, no I didn't have to go through that, but it is required in our State. My niece did for her three children who graduated high school and started disrespecting her in her own home. I think she went to the police station to do it. It is not impossible to obtain, just one step towards helping yourself out of this. It is not fair to you to be living like this. Take courage dear, you are staring at the pit, but you do not deserve to be in it. Take the steps you need to, one day at a time to find a solution. No one, no one deserves to taken down by the choices of adult children. (((HUGS))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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