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Please help with our decision to bail 36 yr old son out of jail..
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<blockquote data-quote="Roxona" data-source="post: 682428" data-attributes="member: 19076"><p>Hi Changes. It sounds like you've had a rough road with your son, and I sympathize with you. I would tend to agree with the others that your rent is more important than bailing your son out of jail. He has shelter and food and is already taken care of. I also believe it is unreasonable for him to put this stress and burden on you time and time again. </p><p></p><p>It's up to you to decide if you should bail him out again, but what lesson does he learn? Right now he knows he can do whatever he likes because he knows Mom will always bail him out. This is the lesson he has learned in the past. It is up to you to decide if you want to continue the cycle, or set boundaries and do something different that might make a real change.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Roxona, post: 682428, member: 19076"] Hi Changes. It sounds like you've had a rough road with your son, and I sympathize with you. I would tend to agree with the others that your rent is more important than bailing your son out of jail. He has shelter and food and is already taken care of. I also believe it is unreasonable for him to put this stress and burden on you time and time again. It's up to you to decide if you should bail him out again, but what lesson does he learn? Right now he knows he can do whatever he likes because he knows Mom will always bail him out. This is the lesson he has learned in the past. It is up to you to decide if you want to continue the cycle, or set boundaries and do something different that might make a real change. [/QUOTE]
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