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PLONK! - difficult child came home drunk....
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<blockquote data-quote="SunnyFlorida" data-source="post: 48771" data-attributes="member: 696"><p>I'm not seeing you take that chill pill yet Mikey :doctor: Now...take that deep breath and r e l a x...think of that nice place in your head.....</p><p></p><p>You can't stop self destruction. You can't change what doesn't want to change. You can only change your reaction to it.</p><p></p><p>Like D3 said, offer some suggestions and carry on as usual. Who knows, difficult child may try and stay out every night, difficult child might not. difficult child might push the limits to the very end...or difficult child may not. The key to this is to not overreact but to have your plan in place.</p><p></p><p>I can say this now...I could not say it a few years ago. I do understand what you're feeling. I also know difficult child's say horrible things sometimes...they don't really mean it most of the time. It's there way of using "unconditional love" and venting. They don't have many people to vent to so those of us who have allowed that type of behavior over the years...get the full brunt.</p><p></p><p>Keep yourself busy and your options open.</p><p></p><p>We'll be here too!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SunnyFlorida, post: 48771, member: 696"] I'm not seeing you take that chill pill yet Mikey [img]:doctor:[/img] Now...take that deep breath and r e l a x...think of that nice place in your head..... You can't stop self destruction. You can't change what doesn't want to change. You can only change your reaction to it. Like D3 said, offer some suggestions and carry on as usual. Who knows, difficult child may try and stay out every night, difficult child might not. difficult child might push the limits to the very end...or difficult child may not. The key to this is to not overreact but to have your plan in place. I can say this now...I could not say it a few years ago. I do understand what you're feeling. I also know difficult child's say horrible things sometimes...they don't really mean it most of the time. It's there way of using "unconditional love" and venting. They don't have many people to vent to so those of us who have allowed that type of behavior over the years...get the full brunt. Keep yourself busy and your options open. We'll be here too! [/QUOTE]
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