I am wondering if anyone has any information on PMT programs - what has worked, not worked. I am on the verge of spending a lot of money to fly out to the Yale Child Conduct Clinic (and who knows if that will help) - I just can't live like this anymore. Our home is in constant "oppositional defiant" chaos. It's like a war zone and I am getting resentful and wanting to disengage. I want to be able to help my child and live peacefully. So, if anyone has any information on a program that has helped them, please please share. We can't do this on our own - we need help. I seriously think we need someone to move in so they can see how things really are and then coach us all intensively. Thanks in advance.