PO had left message, I called and had to leave VM. I told him travel at work stops after trip I'm currently on. And I told him about difficult child's academic record and that this is the only thing difficult child is good at and the only thing he's stuck to. PO said he had nothing to do with sd. Yeah, but he does have to do with group home. He said it's up to reentry lady and sd and he has nothing to do with it. I said, yes, he does because if he orders group home, difficult child has 2 choices- quit school and get GED or alternative school for rest of high school, which greatly diminshes his chances of his academic goals. He kept interrupting, I got ticked and told him to quit interrupting. He said difficult child is going to group home and he has nothing to do with the rest of it. I told him he had no credibility with me anymore, he's said something different every time we talk. He said difficult child is definitely going to group home due to 'safety of the community'. Yeah, when has difficult child posed a threat to anyone 'in the community' besides me? It's not even logical to send difficult child to group home- there would be no mopre supervision there than at home- less really because PO said difficult child wouldn't be on ankle bracelet if he went to group home but would be if he came to live with me. No answer- then 'difficult child is going to group home'. I said 'you think he is, but we'll see' and slammed phone down. Darnit- I better get this job I'm interviewing for this week so I can move out of state and get difficult child out of that entire state's jurisdiction. Otherwise, it's going to be another trip to court to have a judge review it all. I think I'm right- I know if a kid is on probation and parole, the jurisdiction changes to wherever the parent moves. If the kid is in Department of Juvenile Justice, they stay in the same correctional facility until released. Then, they go to the jurisdiction the parent has moved to, still on parole. But I'll have to check with attny to make sure that difficult child would move to state I'm in if the PO of the 'old' state wants him going to group home. If anyone has the answer to that, please let me know. I can say, the group home is not a Department of Juvenile Justice facility, it's a local group home and the only reason difficult child qualifies for it is because I moved to that jurisdiction. If I move out of that jurisdictiion, wouldn't it work the same as having to transfer difficult child's file because I moved? Honestly, what is the point of him calling me? He leaves messages like he's trying to fill me in on the latest news about difficult child. He has no clue what's going on with difficult child in Department of Juvenile Justice. He told me on today's message that difficult child was still in hold over charge last mo. No he's not- difficult child was in hold for 2 days and that was done several weeks ago. He gets papers in from Department of Juvenile Justice when difficult child has an 'incident' and he gets those papers weeks after the fact. He tried to tell me difficult child was in his Department of Juvenile Justice required treatment once when he hadn't even made it thru the waiting list yet. Along with that, he talkes like he needs an update for me- really, why? If my son is going to a group home, what is it you need to know about me and my life? As far as I'm concerned, it's none of his damned business.