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<blockquote data-quote="DarkwingPsyduck" data-source="post: 695830" data-attributes="member: 20267"><p>I don't really disagree with you. I think there is such a thing as too much porn, but you're making it sound like ANY is strictly a bad thing. Which is an archaic, outdated belief. Do you know why child molestation and rape is so rampant in the church? Human beings (whether created, or evolved) are sexual creatures naturally. We reproduce sexually. To aid in that, sex is gratifying. Celibacy is NOT normal. It is NOT how we are wired.</p><p></p><p>The way you make it sound is that ANYBODY who gratifies themselves while viewing pornography is being inherently immoral, and that is a load of dog <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />. For a VAST majority of people who view porn regularly, it has absolutely NO negative effect on themselves, or their sexuality. It doesn't turn straight men gay, and it doesn't turn them into womanizing drunks, and child abusers. I watch porn, and that does not make me a sicko. That is the unhealthy view on sexuality.</p><p></p><p>That being said, sure, it can be a problem. As I acknowledged in my original post. When i said that ANYTHING can be addictive, when we define addiction as persistent actions despite negative consequences. Working out too much is the same way. Healthy and beneficial when done correctly, in moderate amounts, but physically, mentally, and emotionally dangerous in too high doses. I wasn't trying to belittle what you clearly believe is a problem. Is your son into violent pornography? BDSM type stuff? That can be a red flag. Though, there are far more people into that stuff than you might thing, and most of them don't turn into serial killers, either. Still, violent pornography raises a flag slightly darker in hue than other forms of porn. Show me a man who doesn't like to view lesbian porn, for example, and I will show you a liar.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DarkwingPsyduck, post: 695830, member: 20267"] I don't really disagree with you. I think there is such a thing as too much porn, but you're making it sound like ANY is strictly a bad thing. Which is an archaic, outdated belief. Do you know why child molestation and rape is so rampant in the church? Human beings (whether created, or evolved) are sexual creatures naturally. We reproduce sexually. To aid in that, sex is gratifying. Celibacy is NOT normal. It is NOT how we are wired. The way you make it sound is that ANYBODY who gratifies themselves while viewing pornography is being inherently immoral, and that is a load of dog :censored2:. For a VAST majority of people who view porn regularly, it has absolutely NO negative effect on themselves, or their sexuality. It doesn't turn straight men gay, and it doesn't turn them into womanizing drunks, and child abusers. I watch porn, and that does not make me a sicko. That is the unhealthy view on sexuality. That being said, sure, it can be a problem. As I acknowledged in my original post. When i said that ANYTHING can be addictive, when we define addiction as persistent actions despite negative consequences. Working out too much is the same way. Healthy and beneficial when done correctly, in moderate amounts, but physically, mentally, and emotionally dangerous in too high doses. I wasn't trying to belittle what you clearly believe is a problem. Is your son into violent pornography? BDSM type stuff? That can be a red flag. Though, there are far more people into that stuff than you might thing, and most of them don't turn into serial killers, either. Still, violent pornography raises a flag slightly darker in hue than other forms of porn. Show me a man who doesn't like to view lesbian porn, for example, and I will show you a liar. [/QUOTE]
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