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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 753412" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Wise</p><p>I am sorry for what you are going through. It is exhausting.</p><p></p><p>I get very exhausted at times also by trying to always overthink things. I finally figured out WHY I am always so tired. I live with two men that are very much alike (husband and son). There is a lot of teasing going on back and forth between the two of them and they ask me to be the ref. No thanks.</p><p></p><p>I just hired a cleaning service. After living here one year I decided that my time is more valuable than to spend time cleaning. I do work full time also. We have a lot of sand here and the house is perpetually dusty and it's nerve wracking. I also have two small dogs that drag in sand. The cleaning people will come every three weeks (to keep cost down). My son does his own room (not as good as I'd like) but the rest of the house will be cleaned. I can keep up in between. Is this an option for you just to help you de-stress? </p><p></p><p>My son was cutting also when he was 15 and it totally freaked me out. He was using drugs at that time. It was a very scary and confusing time for me. He was embarrassed by it also which was kind of ironic. The psychiatrist he was seeing at the time minimized and said "they all do that". I still don't know what he meant to this day. He may have meant people that are using drugs/people that aren't thinking right? I don't know.</p><p></p><p>I know you had mentioned on another thread that she doesn't want you in her therapist business but I would demand to know what prescriptions she is taking in MY home. I'm a Natzi when it comes to that sort of thing and I would need to know what is going on. It's easier NOT to fight with her over that but I probably would and it would be a very upsetting situation most definitely. I do not think you would be out of line at all. That is probably where I would start with all of this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 753412, member: 15032"] Wise I am sorry for what you are going through. It is exhausting. I get very exhausted at times also by trying to always overthink things. I finally figured out WHY I am always so tired. I live with two men that are very much alike (husband and son). There is a lot of teasing going on back and forth between the two of them and they ask me to be the ref. No thanks. I just hired a cleaning service. After living here one year I decided that my time is more valuable than to spend time cleaning. I do work full time also. We have a lot of sand here and the house is perpetually dusty and it's nerve wracking. I also have two small dogs that drag in sand. The cleaning people will come every three weeks (to keep cost down). My son does his own room (not as good as I'd like) but the rest of the house will be cleaned. I can keep up in between. Is this an option for you just to help you de-stress? My son was cutting also when he was 15 and it totally freaked me out. He was using drugs at that time. It was a very scary and confusing time for me. He was embarrassed by it also which was kind of ironic. The psychiatrist he was seeing at the time minimized and said "they all do that". I still don't know what he meant to this day. He may have meant people that are using drugs/people that aren't thinking right? I don't know. I know you had mentioned on another thread that she doesn't want you in her therapist business but I would demand to know what prescriptions she is taking in MY home. I'm a Natzi when it comes to that sort of thing and I would need to know what is going on. It's easier NOT to fight with her over that but I probably would and it would be a very upsetting situation most definitely. I do not think you would be out of line at all. That is probably where I would start with all of this. [/QUOTE]
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