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<blockquote data-quote="HeadlightsMom" data-source="post: 633964" data-attributes="member: 18284"><p>Wendy 23 -- You have my prayers for safety, strength, wisdom and opportunities!</p><p></p><p>As a 24-yo with a job, he can find his own place to live. Feeling like one has to walk on eggshells in their own home is abuse. We have had times like that. Oh, how I remember the times our difficult child tore up our home and our lives. I love him, but I will NOT live with him again. Just ain't happenin'. Too many police visits. I hope your difficult child moves out and leaves you and your home in safety.</p><p></p><p>Think on this.... How do you feel when you hear about anyone in this forum having to live in fear in their own home? Awful and undeserved! Well, we feel the same about you. His actions = his consequences (not yours). He's a grown man. by the way, my difficult child alternates meth and heroin.....so I really "feel" you here. YES, we worry about their drug addiction being life-threatening. But, see, the crazy thing is that no matter where they go or what they do, it's ultimately up to THEM. No matter what clever lines of shifting blame they love to toss.....their lives are THEIR choices....especially as they're adults.</p><p></p><p>Wow.........if we could fix it, we surely would! But we can't (we've all tried). </p><p></p><p>Stay safe and remember that you matter! <3</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HeadlightsMom, post: 633964, member: 18284"] Wendy 23 -- You have my prayers for safety, strength, wisdom and opportunities! As a 24-yo with a job, he can find his own place to live. Feeling like one has to walk on eggshells in their own home is abuse. We have had times like that. Oh, how I remember the times our difficult child tore up our home and our lives. I love him, but I will NOT live with him again. Just ain't happenin'. Too many police visits. I hope your difficult child moves out and leaves you and your home in safety. Think on this.... How do you feel when you hear about anyone in this forum having to live in fear in their own home? Awful and undeserved! Well, we feel the same about you. His actions = his consequences (not yours). He's a grown man. by the way, my difficult child alternates meth and heroin.....so I really "feel" you here. YES, we worry about their drug addiction being life-threatening. But, see, the crazy thing is that no matter where they go or what they do, it's ultimately up to THEM. No matter what clever lines of shifting blame they love to toss.....their lives are THEIR choices....especially as they're adults. Wow.........if we could fix it, we surely would! But we can't (we've all tried). Stay safe and remember that you matter! <3 [/QUOTE]
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