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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 724113" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Baby or not, your life is over if this daughter stays in your house. She pulled a knife on you once and you didnt call the police and get a restraining order on her? She STOLE your entire nestegg and you didnt call the police or throw her out?</p><p></p><p>She has all the power in the family yet she is toddler like abusive. And mean and and a thief and close to assaulting husband when she blocks him from leaving his home. Who does she think she is? She destroys the sanctuary that should be your peaceful home. YOUR home. WHY do you think you need to live with her? Yes, you gave birth to her, but she is an adult now. Mommy days are long over. You paid your dues. You taught her good values yet she discarded them, which is her choice. This is not your fault.</p><p></p><p>We are all different but my own feeling is, only daughter or not, i would not have let her chase me out of my own home, interferred with my beloved husband, and probably would not have had much to do with her after the knife and theft.</p><p></p><p>The baby was inevitable and a tool and will be used to force you to put up with daughter's abuse. I urge you not to do this. There is government help for single mothers. If she ever abuses the baby or no longer wants him, if you want you can take legal steps to get custody. Or call cps and let them handle it. 30 is old to raise a baby. You dont have to.</p><p></p><p> You can also just let her raise her own child, but not in your home. If it were me, I would offer to take in the baby sometimes, but not her.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter is no child. She is 30. You have let her terrorize you and others in your home since...eighteen?</p><p></p><p>It is time for you to worry about yourself and mend your marriage and give time to your loving children. You cant save your daughter or the baby that she can and will rip from you each time you dont kiss her feet, but you have power to make YOUR life good without her.</p><p></p><p>Let her grow up. None of us can live forever. You do her no favors letting her act like a dictator.. nobody else will allow it and she will expect it.</p><p></p><p>Much love and hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 724113, member: 1550"] Baby or not, your life is over if this daughter stays in your house. She pulled a knife on you once and you didnt call the police and get a restraining order on her? She STOLE your entire nestegg and you didnt call the police or throw her out? She has all the power in the family yet she is toddler like abusive. And mean and and a thief and close to assaulting husband when she blocks him from leaving his home. Who does she think she is? She destroys the sanctuary that should be your peaceful home. YOUR home. WHY do you think you need to live with her? Yes, you gave birth to her, but she is an adult now. Mommy days are long over. You paid your dues. You taught her good values yet she discarded them, which is her choice. This is not your fault. We are all different but my own feeling is, only daughter or not, i would not have let her chase me out of my own home, interferred with my beloved husband, and probably would not have had much to do with her after the knife and theft. The baby was inevitable and a tool and will be used to force you to put up with daughter's abuse. I urge you not to do this. There is government help for single mothers. If she ever abuses the baby or no longer wants him, if you want you can take legal steps to get custody. Or call cps and let them handle it. 30 is old to raise a baby. You dont have to. You can also just let her raise her own child, but not in your home. If it were me, I would offer to take in the baby sometimes, but not her. Your daughter is no child. She is 30. You have let her terrorize you and others in your home since...eighteen? It is time for you to worry about yourself and mend your marriage and give time to your loving children. You cant save your daughter or the baby that she can and will rip from you each time you dont kiss her feet, but you have power to make YOUR life good without her. Let her grow up. None of us can live forever. You do her no favors letting her act like a dictator.. nobody else will allow it and she will expect it. Much love and hugs [/QUOTE]
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