Backstory - difficult daughter, 27, been using drugs and having a succession of loser boyfriends since she was 18. We have guardianship of her 3 year old son, but it is a physical, emotional, and financial struggle. We have guardianship because baby daddy was in jail at the time and she had a new boyfriend and couldn't be bothered with GS. So we ended up watching him and bonded with him. Now she's pregnant again (another guy, not old baby daddy or other boyfriend she had (last we heard he was in state hospital for the criminally insane, no joke). This guy is another loser, has 3 other kids he doesn't support. daughter has no plan on how she's going to raise a baby, she has a part time minimum wage job and rents a room in a friend's house. Actually, I think her plan is she'll move in with us and we'll raise the kid while she does whatever she wants (what she did with the first one). I am adamant that we cannot raise another one of her kids. Wife says she's on board, BUT if she needs something wants to be there for her. I can picture how this will play out. Baby daddy will be gone by delivery date. She'll show up at our door 9 months pregnant or with an infant. Then what do we do? Raising 2 kids is not even an option. Wife's health is bad.