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<blockquote data-quote="DoneDad" data-source="post: 717695" data-attributes="member: 17244"><p>This is the nightmare scenario. I've sort of been in shock the last couple of days since I found out. As far as abortion, she says she doesn't want to do that (she's done it before, I think it's more that baby daddy doesn't want it, or adoption). Adoption sounds like the best option. But she'll have to make that decision. And baby daddy might have to agree if he's still in the picture. </p><p></p><p>We're just going to have to make our position crystal clear. My fantasy is not having anything to do with baby. Wife says she wants to be involved as a grandmother (what does that even mean in this situation?). </p><p></p><p>What I see happening is like the frog in the pot of hot water. If you put a frog in a pot of boiling water, he'll jump out. But if you put the frog in a pot of cold water and slowly raise the temperature, he won't jump out. He gets used to it. So we'll let her move back in to help her out, we'll watch the kid occasionally, she'll be gone more and more, and then we're raising another kid. </p><p></p><p>Thanks for the replies!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DoneDad, post: 717695, member: 17244"] This is the nightmare scenario. I've sort of been in shock the last couple of days since I found out. As far as abortion, she says she doesn't want to do that (she's done it before, I think it's more that baby daddy doesn't want it, or adoption). Adoption sounds like the best option. But she'll have to make that decision. And baby daddy might have to agree if he's still in the picture. We're just going to have to make our position crystal clear. My fantasy is not having anything to do with baby. Wife says she wants to be involved as a grandmother (what does that even mean in this situation?). What I see happening is like the frog in the pot of hot water. If you put a frog in a pot of boiling water, he'll jump out. But if you put the frog in a pot of cold water and slowly raise the temperature, he won't jump out. He gets used to it. So we'll let her move back in to help her out, we'll watch the kid occasionally, she'll be gone more and more, and then we're raising another kid. Thanks for the replies! [/QUOTE]
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