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Probably worst day of my life...
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<blockquote data-quote="Mumunderfire" data-source="post: 735482" data-attributes="member: 23081"><p>Hi care to much. What your mum and dad want is for him to make the right decision and do his community service. Nothing you do or don't do is going to bring that about. The only thing that will make it happen is him. </p><p>It's shame you have fallen out with your dad about it. These difficult people put such a strain on everyone's lives. He's is probably overwrought and still not wanting to accept the stark fact that the only person who can turn this round, won't. We all resist that reality at least a bit because there is no comfort in it. I have had similar from my parents. It's coming from a place of love but those of us who are on the front front line day in day out truly dedicated to winning the battle have to ditch a lot of nice parenty things that would make us feel better. It's totally altruistic in the truest sense of the word what you did for your son. You feel crap you feel guilt it was very hard I don't think anyone can say it was for your benefit!</p><p>You have done a good thing you are being a good parent hang in there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mumunderfire, post: 735482, member: 23081"] Hi care to much. What your mum and dad want is for him to make the right decision and do his community service. Nothing you do or don't do is going to bring that about. The only thing that will make it happen is him. It's shame you have fallen out with your dad about it. These difficult people put such a strain on everyone's lives. He's is probably overwrought and still not wanting to accept the stark fact that the only person who can turn this round, won't. We all resist that reality at least a bit because there is no comfort in it. I have had similar from my parents. It's coming from a place of love but those of us who are on the front front line day in day out truly dedicated to winning the battle have to ditch a lot of nice parenty things that would make us feel better. It's totally altruistic in the truest sense of the word what you did for your son. You feel crap you feel guilt it was very hard I don't think anyone can say it was for your benefit! You have done a good thing you are being a good parent hang in there. [/QUOTE]
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