I have not posted much about my 17 yr. old son lately. He has a court date on Tuesday for probation violations. The probation officer is going to ask the judge to send him to tjjd. This is not a treatment facility and is much more like a prison. My son refused to report to probation, refused drug testing, violated curfew, and cussed out the probation officer. At home, he has refused to follow any rules, and pretty much is just down right unpleasant to be around. I have come home from work to find kids who use my house as a place to skip school, smoke weed and drink. The police are here at least once a week and I have filed trespassing charges on about 7 of his "friends". He and his clowns are smart enough to not have anything on them or have left before the police get here. He plans to tell the judge that the reason he does not follow the probation plan or house rules is that he does not need a baby sitter. He knows what he is doing and we are just trying to keep him from living his life the way he wants. I am so looking forward to Tuesday it should be a real hoot.