My 10 y/o difficult child is having some major problems at school and we're not even a week in yet! He is not doing his class work and is defying his teachers. His one teacher pulled me aside on Friday when I went to pick him up and told me that he said he's too tired to do work because I make him stay up until 10:30 pm every night! That's nuts! Bedtime is at 8 pm on the DOT every night. Actually I should say "was" because his new bedtime is now 7 pm. For now the teacher and I are going to stay in daily contact but I'm thinking he may need an aid in class to help him. He does great on his homework because I'm there sitting next to him. I really think he needs that at school to help him stay focused. Also, no matter what I do he's very unorganized and forgetful. Any suggestions or tips on what I can do?