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Protecting myself/Contact with "Narcis-sister"
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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 675171" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi everybody, I have learned a lot from reading the recent threads on the narcissistic continuum, very interesting material. </p><p>I know that most folks posting have, little or no contact, and for good reason. </p><p>My dilemma, is that I do still have contact, and will until my mom's time comes, to honor her wish for us to "be a family", to "get along." </p><p>I do love my sister, but have seen that she has been damaging still, in our relationship.</p><p></p><p>I found this article to be interesting, and helpful. </p><p>I do not agree with the part on "ego stroking", because I do not want to become a manipulative person myself. </p><p></p><p>I do think it will help to educate myself further on the topic, and to strengthen and embrace my inner child, all tools that will help me with future contact. </p><p>I think that I need to keep our conversations really simple, the same as with my two d cs. Otherwise, I am drawn into a web, I want no part of.</p><p></p><p>Thank you all for your posts and your work on FOO. It has really helped me sort through my history. </p><p>Now to concentrate on being<em> present.</em></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p><a href="http://thenarcissistatwork.com/2013/04/the-sibling-narcissist/" target="_blank">http://thenarcissistatwork.com/2013/04/the-sibling-narcissist/</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 675171, member: 19522"] Hi everybody, I have learned a lot from reading the recent threads on the narcissistic continuum, very interesting material. I know that most folks posting have, little or no contact, and for good reason. My dilemma, is that I do still have contact, and will until my mom's time comes, to honor her wish for us to "be a family", to "get along." I do love my sister, but have seen that she has been damaging still, in our relationship. I found this article to be interesting, and helpful. I do not agree with the part on "ego stroking", because I do not want to become a manipulative person myself. I do think it will help to educate myself further on the topic, and to strengthen and embrace my inner child, all tools that will help me with future contact. I think that I need to keep our conversations really simple, the same as with my two d cs. Otherwise, I am drawn into a web, I want no part of. Thank you all for your posts and your work on FOO. It has really helped me sort through my history. Now to concentrate on being[I] present.[/I] [URL]http://thenarcissistatwork.com/2013/04/the-sibling-narcissist/[/URL] [/QUOTE]
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