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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 631405" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You are all better than I am. I wouldn't care if he had a disease or mental illness AND a disease if he tried recruiting my other child. I'd probably need a long, long break from him. Some older drug using kids DO try or succeed in getting their younger siblings to take drugs and join their rotten world. Misery loves company. But there are also drug users who tell their siblings, "If you ever turn out like me, I'll kill you before you can do it." </p><p></p><p>I don't know how to handle it. I know if it were me, I would need a long break and I'd be terrified that he'd ramp up his urging. And he would have got more than "you're disgusting" on FB from me. He did not have to make the decision to involve his sibling. What was the point?</p><p></p><p>Only you know what your boy was before he took drugs. Sometimes drugs changes one into a sick person and a mean person, but sometimes they were never all that nice to begin with and they got into drugs which didn't help any. Either way, I would probably put this into the "I'm going to watch my younger kid's contact with this older kid until I can't anymore" category and I'd be too angry to see anything but red. </p><p></p><p>I'm so, so, so sorry you have to deal with this. To me, it's just a step too much. And I think he did it partly to upset you and partly to get your other son as sick as he is. Many hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 631405, member: 1550"] You are all better than I am. I wouldn't care if he had a disease or mental illness AND a disease if he tried recruiting my other child. I'd probably need a long, long break from him. Some older drug using kids DO try or succeed in getting their younger siblings to take drugs and join their rotten world. Misery loves company. But there are also drug users who tell their siblings, "If you ever turn out like me, I'll kill you before you can do it." I don't know how to handle it. I know if it were me, I would need a long break and I'd be terrified that he'd ramp up his urging. And he would have got more than "you're disgusting" on FB from me. He did not have to make the decision to involve his sibling. What was the point? Only you know what your boy was before he took drugs. Sometimes drugs changes one into a sick person and a mean person, but sometimes they were never all that nice to begin with and they got into drugs which didn't help any. Either way, I would probably put this into the "I'm going to watch my younger kid's contact with this older kid until I can't anymore" category and I'd be too angry to see anything but red. I'm so, so, so sorry you have to deal with this. To me, it's just a step too much. And I think he did it partly to upset you and partly to get your other son as sick as he is. Many hugs. [/QUOTE]
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