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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 77912" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>When I asked my Mother a couple of years ago why she NEVER said she didn't like my x or felt it was wrong to marry him? She replied "I don't waste my breath on ears that won't listen." and she was right. Any interjection from her regarding my marriage would have just caused a rift on MY "special day". My wedding went off without a hitch, I thought it was beautiful, and my Mother sat in knowing the outcome but silent so I could have MY DAY. My marriage was abusive from the word I do - 13 years later when I left to live a life with a messed up child and severe PTST from being tortured by a real psychopath. </p><p></p><p>The choice you have is simple because it's already been made for you. YOU know your daughter and she's not going to change. She's not going to oppose her fiance, she is NOT going to go against his wishes for you or anyone else. In her mind she's not hurting her brother she's obeying her future husband. It's skewed logic at best. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry for what I think are facts, but I've been there and done that, had counseling for years and won't ever do it again. </p><p></p><p>THIS IS JUST MY humble opinion. The plans are set, there is no changing her mind, his mind or how it makes you feel. It is what it is. Either find a way to deal with it, or continue to press the issues with your daughter and cause a rift. </p><p></p><p>It's just what I think - </p><p></p><p>Sorry for your pain</p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 77912, member: 4964"] When I asked my Mother a couple of years ago why she NEVER said she didn't like my x or felt it was wrong to marry him? She replied "I don't waste my breath on ears that won't listen." and she was right. Any interjection from her regarding my marriage would have just caused a rift on MY "special day". My wedding went off without a hitch, I thought it was beautiful, and my Mother sat in knowing the outcome but silent so I could have MY DAY. My marriage was abusive from the word I do - 13 years later when I left to live a life with a messed up child and severe PTST from being tortured by a real psychopath. The choice you have is simple because it's already been made for you. YOU know your daughter and she's not going to change. She's not going to oppose her fiance, she is NOT going to go against his wishes for you or anyone else. In her mind she's not hurting her brother she's obeying her future husband. It's skewed logic at best. I'm sorry for what I think are facts, but I've been there and done that, had counseling for years and won't ever do it again. THIS IS JUST MY humble opinion. The plans are set, there is no changing her mind, his mind or how it makes you feel. It is what it is. Either find a way to deal with it, or continue to press the issues with your daughter and cause a rift. It's just what I think - Sorry for your pain Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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