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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 78293" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>It is time to let this go. Traditionally, it is the groomsmen who take family members to their seats (only the bride is "walked down the aisle"), so rather than worrying about who made the decision, simply leave it that someone read a book on weddings and felt more comfortable being traditional. Nothing wrong with that. Your easy child has an important job and it would be a shame if somone didn't get a program so you could be seated.</p><p></p><p>We all have choices. We can relive the past and make it an excuse for behavior in the present. We can live in the present and let the past be the past. We can live in the future and wonder why the future never comes. Obviously, different events will cause one choice or the other. It is what we do with that choice that matters. If we let the past control our present, we end up losing the importance of today. If we are so busy worrying about the future, we lose the present to the worry. If we simply live in the present, we don't take the lessons from the past to heart and learn from them and we don't have any hope because there is no future. </p><p></p><p>So, take a little of the past and let it teach you how to treat your son-in-law. Choose a little of dreaming of the future and smile at the potential there is for your daughter and her husband and, hopefully, her children. Keep a lot of the present around you so can enjoy every moment of today.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 78293, member: 3626"] It is time to let this go. Traditionally, it is the groomsmen who take family members to their seats (only the bride is "walked down the aisle"), so rather than worrying about who made the decision, simply leave it that someone read a book on weddings and felt more comfortable being traditional. Nothing wrong with that. Your easy child has an important job and it would be a shame if somone didn't get a program so you could be seated. We all have choices. We can relive the past and make it an excuse for behavior in the present. We can live in the present and let the past be the past. We can live in the future and wonder why the future never comes. Obviously, different events will cause one choice or the other. It is what we do with that choice that matters. If we let the past control our present, we end up losing the importance of today. If we are so busy worrying about the future, we lose the present to the worry. If we simply live in the present, we don't take the lessons from the past to heart and learn from them and we don't have any hope because there is no future. So, take a little of the past and let it teach you how to treat your son-in-law. Choose a little of dreaming of the future and smile at the potential there is for your daughter and her husband and, hopefully, her children. Keep a lot of the present around you so can enjoy every moment of today. [/QUOTE]
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