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<blockquote data-quote="BonnieJean" data-source="post: 6594" data-attributes="member: 851"><p>OTE,</p><p>And the concerns are real. I was talking to another lady yesterday at our local band office. Actually, I was standing there when this other lady comes in with an Avon order and sternly says to the receptionist, "Make sure she gets this, cuz she really wants it!" I was standing there thinking, my goodness if you don't trust the lady don't leave it? Anyways...this lady is one of the foster care mothers who my SWer has hired. The one I mentioned who does her nails. It was the first time I had seen her but I had recognized the child that was with her as someones from the community. So I asked the receptionists who she was and she told me. The little girl, who looks about 3 or 4 has a black eye. The receptionist asked about it, but got no answer besides can you please make sure SWer gets this again...</p><p></p><p>The bullying for me is very personal. It's more personal because this was a big reason DEX and easy child son are not living here. Remember easy child son started using violence against me and the girls...to vent his frustrations etc...and DEX didn't "get it"? Anyways...</p><p></p><p>Last night at the Policing meeting I told the officer I could write a book on this bullying and his response was "I know you could, I've read the files on it." </p><p></p><p>I have tried talking to both the parents. The one boy in particular who has since become the ring leader, his mother called me at work one day and pretty much blamed everything on the other boy. Who at the time, I thought was worse in behaviour than her son. NOT! </p><p></p><p>Well, now, this boy has a HUGE ignorant attitude and so does the mother. Like the day he almost hit difficult child with the four wheeler as he went by, she said I was lying, that it was BS and that he wouldn't do that, blah blah blah. Then later when difficult child had NO choice but to fight or get beat up badly the polices response about charges was that they could but it would have to be againsts all of them, including difficult child because it was a consentual street fight. I said it wasn't really consentual, difficult child had no choice. This was the same fight where difficult child got kicked by another boy and hit with a hockey stick when he was done on the ground. These parents DON'T GIVE A D-A-M-N I can tell you that much! Else they wouldn't be out there still doing it to other people, right? I mean, come on....a child can be placed in care until their 18, right? So, instead of taking difficult child out of his home, his community for just taking up for himself, why didn't they remove those boys from parents who were neglecting them, instead of taking difficult child from me? I know I was struggling but these boys were the main reason why difficult child was having such a hard time...ugh...just senseless.....</p><p></p><p>BonnieJean</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BonnieJean, post: 6594, member: 851"] OTE, And the concerns are real. I was talking to another lady yesterday at our local band office. Actually, I was standing there when this other lady comes in with an Avon order and sternly says to the receptionist, "Make sure she gets this, cuz she really wants it!" I was standing there thinking, my goodness if you don't trust the lady don't leave it? Anyways...this lady is one of the foster care mothers who my SWer has hired. The one I mentioned who does her nails. It was the first time I had seen her but I had recognized the child that was with her as someones from the community. So I asked the receptionists who she was and she told me. The little girl, who looks about 3 or 4 has a black eye. The receptionist asked about it, but got no answer besides can you please make sure SWer gets this again... The bullying for me is very personal. It's more personal because this was a big reason DEX and easy child son are not living here. Remember easy child son started using violence against me and the girls...to vent his frustrations etc...and DEX didn't "get it"? Anyways... Last night at the Policing meeting I told the officer I could write a book on this bullying and his response was "I know you could, I've read the files on it." I have tried talking to both the parents. The one boy in particular who has since become the ring leader, his mother called me at work one day and pretty much blamed everything on the other boy. Who at the time, I thought was worse in behaviour than her son. NOT! Well, now, this boy has a HUGE ignorant attitude and so does the mother. Like the day he almost hit difficult child with the four wheeler as he went by, she said I was lying, that it was BS and that he wouldn't do that, blah blah blah. Then later when difficult child had NO choice but to fight or get beat up badly the polices response about charges was that they could but it would have to be againsts all of them, including difficult child because it was a consentual street fight. I said it wasn't really consentual, difficult child had no choice. This was the same fight where difficult child got kicked by another boy and hit with a hockey stick when he was done on the ground. These parents DON'T GIVE A D-A-M-N I can tell you that much! Else they wouldn't be out there still doing it to other people, right? I mean, come on....a child can be placed in care until their 18, right? So, instead of taking difficult child out of his home, his community for just taking up for himself, why didn't they remove those boys from parents who were neglecting them, instead of taking difficult child from me? I know I was struggling but these boys were the main reason why difficult child was having such a hard time...ugh...just senseless..... BonnieJean [/QUOTE]
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