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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 674450" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>This has been very hard for me too. I started seeing biodad in my son early...like age 3. He would be in trouble and you'd be yelling at him or scolding him and he'd get this little smile on his face...EXACTLY what his biodad would do when he and I would fight. There were so many traits that surfaced over the years. His biodad was moody and while he didn't have my son's temper, he did occasionally blow HARD. He once broke the windshield to my car while having a melt-down over some fight - I don't even remember what it was about. </p><p> </p><p>We warned him over and over about drinking because biodad was an alcoholic. We never even thought about pot and other substances. We thought we'd raised him better. Silly us.</p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>Oh hun. First, NEVER tell her if you're feeling guilty. That's just ammunition. Hang in there. You clearly STILL haven't given up on her. If she has felt that way, that is HER guilt talking. </p><p> </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 674450, member: 17309"] This has been very hard for me too. I started seeing biodad in my son early...like age 3. He would be in trouble and you'd be yelling at him or scolding him and he'd get this little smile on his face...EXACTLY what his biodad would do when he and I would fight. There were so many traits that surfaced over the years. His biodad was moody and while he didn't have my son's temper, he did occasionally blow HARD. He once broke the windshield to my car while having a melt-down over some fight - I don't even remember what it was about. We warned him over and over about drinking because biodad was an alcoholic. We never even thought about pot and other substances. We thought we'd raised him better. Silly us. Oh hun. First, NEVER tell her if you're feeling guilty. That's just ammunition. Hang in there. You clearly STILL haven't given up on her. If she has felt that way, that is HER guilt talking. :group-hug: [/QUOTE]
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