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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 674464" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>SP, my two do the same to me. They have this sick need to drag me down. I think it is because they don't want to focus on their own behavior. It is easier to blame us for everything. I know they know it is wrong. Even if your girl may feel it's true, on drugs, she is not in her <em>right mind. </em>It is hard when d c's have such venom. It hurts to the core. It is a part of the manipulation. It is akin to domestic violence/verbal and emotional abuse. Not our partner, our <em><strong>kid.</strong></em></p><p>Have you seen a counselor, or been to any meetings? It is helpful to learn as much as you can to be able to rebuild yourself.</p><p>You matter, and so does your son. He sounds just like my boy, he said the exact same thing " Why do we put up with this stuff mom?" I finally realized that my sweet, sensitive puppy dog 14 year old son was waiting his whole life on the sidelines while we struggled with his sisters and our grands. Enough was enough. I am focusing on him, my hubs,and me.</p><p>My two, are adults and will make their own choices. If they continue to try to manipulate and con me into feeling guilty, I will limit contact. I do not need the drama, my son deserves to have peace at home, we all do.</p><p>Your daughter will be okay. Mine is out there too. They are survivors.</p><p>They do not get well at home, they get worse.</p><p>Take care SP focus on yourself and your sweet boy.</p><p></p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 674464, member: 19522"] SP, my two do the same to me. They have this sick need to drag me down. I think it is because they don't want to focus on their own behavior. It is easier to blame us for everything. I know they know it is wrong. Even if your girl may feel it's true, on drugs, she is not in her [I]right mind. [/I]It is hard when d c's have such venom. It hurts to the core. It is a part of the manipulation. It is akin to domestic violence/verbal and emotional abuse. Not our partner, our [I][B]kid.[/B][/I] Have you seen a counselor, or been to any meetings? It is helpful to learn as much as you can to be able to rebuild yourself. You matter, and so does your son. He sounds just like my boy, he said the exact same thing " Why do we put up with this stuff mom?" I finally realized that my sweet, sensitive puppy dog 14 year old son was waiting his whole life on the sidelines while we struggled with his sisters and our grands. Enough was enough. I am focusing on him, my hubs,and me. My two, are adults and will make their own choices. If they continue to try to manipulate and con me into feeling guilty, I will limit contact. I do not need the drama, my son deserves to have peace at home, we all do. Your daughter will be okay. Mine is out there too. They are survivors. They do not get well at home, they get worse. Take care SP focus on yourself and your sweet boy. (((Hugs))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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