My son's ex hit him for custody of his son. She gave a bunch of reasons, but when he went to a lawyer (my ex husband is paying for his lawyer, thankfully for him) the lawyer said most of her reasons are nonsense. She is claiming, with no specifics, that things have changed so drastically that she needs to have soul custody and that Son isn't working with her on co-parenting and other stuff. From what I know, ex tries to do everything to J. without consulting my son, although currently they have joint custody. For example, she signed him up for school without consulting my son and there were actually several choices as to where he could go for school. Ditto for daycare. Son wanted him to go to the school's after school care...she felt the school wouldn't follow the parenting plan as well as a baby daycare center so she wanted to sign J. up to be bussed to a child care center for mostly under 5 year olds in preschool. The honest reason is because she wants her boyfriend to be able to pick up J. on her day and doesn't want my son to ever have J. on her day. My son agreed to let her boyfriendj pick up J. just so she'd agree to allow J. to go to after school care, which is where all his friends will be plus it's cheaper, but ex still went ballistic because she wants THAT daycare center...so here we are going to court. Son's lawyer said it could take six months. Any feedback? When I got divorced from my ex, we were civil and there wasn't any fighting at all. So I'm a newbie to this and concerned for my grandson.