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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 652986" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Jabber is correct, you need to get some help before June 1st.</p><p> </p><p>Lil, I think you might need to go see your Dr. Stress can do wicked things to our health. Stress can cause so many problems, one being lack of restfull sleep. When our bodies do not get the proper sleep it can cause weight gain and also depression. You may benefit from an anti depressant for a while.</p><p>When my mom died I was also dealing with my son's crappola and hitting the 5 year mark of being cancer free. I was having a hard time sleeping and just felt drained all the time. That drianed feeling was one of my symptoms with the lymphoma so when I went for a check up I shared with my oncologist my fears. He knew my life story (great Dr.) anyway, he told me my cancer was not coming back but that I was depressed due to son's crappola and my mother's passing. He contacted my GP Dr. and I went on anti depressants for about 6 months. Made all the difference in the world.</p><p> </p><p>June 1st will be here soon so you and Jabber really should seak out a counselor.</p><p> </p><p>I know you can get through this. If I and husband can do it so can you two.</p><p> </p><p>I won't sugar coat it, it's hard and there will always be part of your heart that aches for your son.</p><p>(you and I share the only child factor) that makes it really hard.</p><p> </p><p>It's only through acceptance that we can let go and move on with our own lives. Accepting that no matter how hard you try to help him until he helps himself nothing will change.</p><p> </p><p>((HUGS)) to you........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 652986, member: 18516"] Jabber is correct, you need to get some help before June 1st. Lil, I think you might need to go see your Dr. Stress can do wicked things to our health. Stress can cause so many problems, one being lack of restfull sleep. When our bodies do not get the proper sleep it can cause weight gain and also depression. You may benefit from an anti depressant for a while. When my mom died I was also dealing with my son's crappola and hitting the 5 year mark of being cancer free. I was having a hard time sleeping and just felt drained all the time. That drianed feeling was one of my symptoms with the lymphoma so when I went for a check up I shared with my oncologist my fears. He knew my life story (great Dr.) anyway, he told me my cancer was not coming back but that I was depressed due to son's crappola and my mother's passing. He contacted my GP Dr. and I went on anti depressants for about 6 months. Made all the difference in the world. June 1st will be here soon so you and Jabber really should seak out a counselor. I know you can get through this. If I and husband can do it so can you two. I won't sugar coat it, it's hard and there will always be part of your heart that aches for your son. (you and I share the only child factor) that makes it really hard. It's only through acceptance that we can let go and move on with our own lives. Accepting that no matter how hard you try to help him until he helps himself nothing will change. ((HUGS)) to you........ [/QUOTE]
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