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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 708913" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>I read somewhere - probably from someone here - that if you resent the help you are giving, it isn't help, it's enabling. </p><p></p><p>If it's a gift out of the goodness of your heart, it's a gift. If it's something you are giving grudgingly or with trepidation, then it's not. Do what feels right to YOU. If you feel like a t-shirt and some sweat pants would be good for him and make him more comfortable there, then fine, give. If you don't. Then don't. All you can do is what seems right at the time. </p><p></p><p>Out of curiosity though, how has he left before with no clothes?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 708913, member: 17309"] I read somewhere - probably from someone here - that if you resent the help you are giving, it isn't help, it's enabling. If it's a gift out of the goodness of your heart, it's a gift. If it's something you are giving grudgingly or with trepidation, then it's not. Do what feels right to YOU. If you feel like a t-shirt and some sweat pants would be good for him and make him more comfortable there, then fine, give. If you don't. Then don't. All you can do is what seems right at the time. Out of curiosity though, how has he left before with no clothes? [/QUOTE]
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