I swear my husband is being the biggest EVER! I was very clear to husband that I am a MESS this week. I have WAY too much on my plate both on the home front and with work that I feel like I am going to have a breakdown at any moment and I am trying my best to hold it together. So, I told him I just need to focus on the most important tasks of the day THAT day and to please accept that the house will not be perfect and that I am stressed to the max. So, what does he do? He keeps getting on my case about EVERYTHING. I can't take it. I seriously can't take it! First of all, I work from home. I am self employed. So, taxes are a nightmare and very stressful for me and very time consuming. Right around tax time was when M started going into crisis and then had his first psychiatric hospital admit. So, I told husband to file for an extension on our taxes so we wouldn't have to deal with that. He agreed and said he would take care of it. He never did. Well, now the taxes are late, we'll have penalties, I have a TON of work deadlines to meet this month and he's climbing up my to get our taxes done THIS WEEK. I started melting down and telling him OK..but please stop talking about it, we can talk about it ON THAT DAY that you need me to do it, but right now I need to focus on the priorities of TODAY...but he wouldn't shut up. Needless to say, I was so worked up, I was up until 2:30 AM last night and I woke up in just as equally a crappy mood. Secondly, he's on my case about not getting the kids haircuts this week. Like I had TIME to do that. Then while I was working today, I asked him why he couldn't just take them today and he said "because it's busy on Saturdays." Yeah...so just expect the over stressed, over worked, on the verge of a breakdown mom to do it and then jump down her throat when she surprisingly has no time to accomplish it. AGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAHGAHGAHGAHGAHGHAGHAGH! Ok....vent over.