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<blockquote data-quote="BackintheSaddle" data-source="post: 623314" data-attributes="member: 17503"><p>I got another letter from my father today!!!....I thought about starting a new thread since it's a letter I've received since telling him to STOP contacting me, giving him documentation of how what he is doing and saying is domestic violence...another one! Based on how it was addressed, it too was nasty but I put it back in the mailbox with 'return to sender' again...I also emailed my difficult child who hasn't replied to texts in 2 weeks and told him about it. I 'warned' him about it on 2/28, when I sent my father the first returned letter and don't know that he knew his Papa was doing that. but in my email i told him today to ask them to stop, to intervene, because I just can't take it anymore- that what I'm paying for or not for him is between me and him (that's what my father was harping about- that I'm not supporting my own son!)...if difficult child wants to reach me, he knows where to find me, I would welcome having a relationship with him but as long as he's not communicating with me, I'm leaving him alone...he's a grown man and needs to make decisions for himself of what's important to him in life...I just am stunned they sent another letter...husband wasn't though...he said they got the returned birthday card on Wednesday, he sat down and wrote this latest letter and mailed it the next day...amazing...they just have nothing to do other than trash me and I'm not strong enough to keep this up...</p><p> </p><p>good luck sleeping tonight!....ugh!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BackintheSaddle, post: 623314, member: 17503"] I got another letter from my father today!!!....I thought about starting a new thread since it's a letter I've received since telling him to STOP contacting me, giving him documentation of how what he is doing and saying is domestic violence...another one! Based on how it was addressed, it too was nasty but I put it back in the mailbox with 'return to sender' again...I also emailed my difficult child who hasn't replied to texts in 2 weeks and told him about it. I 'warned' him about it on 2/28, when I sent my father the first returned letter and don't know that he knew his Papa was doing that. but in my email i told him today to ask them to stop, to intervene, because I just can't take it anymore- that what I'm paying for or not for him is between me and him (that's what my father was harping about- that I'm not supporting my own son!)...if difficult child wants to reach me, he knows where to find me, I would welcome having a relationship with him but as long as he's not communicating with me, I'm leaving him alone...he's a grown man and needs to make decisions for himself of what's important to him in life...I just am stunned they sent another letter...husband wasn't though...he said they got the returned birthday card on Wednesday, he sat down and wrote this latest letter and mailed it the next day...amazing...they just have nothing to do other than trash me and I'm not strong enough to keep this up... good luck sleeping tonight!....ugh! [/QUOTE]
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