i usually post in Parents Emeritus. Some of you know me. After 11 months of independent living ( spent three years in sober living before that) he is drinking again. Brought him to ER Last Sunday. They said alcohol level was not high enough for admission. Now at University medical center in ER again. Drunk. And it's his birthday. Plan is to transfer him to detox. When he sobers up. I have his wallet and his jacket. In case he has other ideas. My husband and I are beyond devastated.