my son was discharged from his IOP. He would have had to agree to move into sober living to go back to it. He relapsed Friday night and then on Saturday again. Spent Sunday in the ER due to nonstop throwing up.... The IOP therapist was beyond upset and felt he needed detox. When he originally went to detox he rushed himself through it. Went in on a Tuesday and kept telling them he was good. They said he numbers were good and released him on Thursday. I was so upset because we flew out to take care of his pets and he was released.. Took him to many many AA meetings and now this. At a loss here. He makes it 2 weeks then relapses so I fear what 2 weeks will bring. Since we have our tickets we are going out next week to help him move, but I really need to make it known that I am done. I want to take him off our health care but my husband said no... He had no intention of stopping his marijuana smoking when he agreed to IOP and knew it would cost us how much. Feels like he just robbed us. IF anyone has experience in how to tell their adult child they are through, please tell me. I'm sure they throw out the suicide card.