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<blockquote data-quote="UpandDown" data-source="post: 710554" data-attributes="member: 19025"><p>Great question that I have had on my mind as well. Son is about to turn 18 and needs to move on out into the real world. He has so many barriers to entry into the real world and husband and I were pondering helping him with paying for somewhere else to live. No where close to acting, just pondering. I will be completely honest, I want him out of the house. His moods and lack of respect for anyone else in our family is extremely difficult to bear. I find myself getting more and more depressed as he sucks the oxygen out of the room. He holds a lot of anger against us for the years we tried to show him the right path in life and education. He knows it all and no one can tell him anything. He is not going to college and although he is working hard on various job ideas, he really has no direction. I want to live and enjoy my life again. So if we do subsidize rent, it would be to give our daughters and ourselves a peaceful life again. Yet, we would have to make sure its not allowing him to buy weed. And how would I do that? I refuse to get into the bargaining with him and setting up contracts that he will do this and that. Experience has shown me that he will agree to anything but not honor it. Round and round I go on this. Certainly not a right or wrong answer.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="UpandDown, post: 710554, member: 19025"] Great question that I have had on my mind as well. Son is about to turn 18 and needs to move on out into the real world. He has so many barriers to entry into the real world and husband and I were pondering helping him with paying for somewhere else to live. No where close to acting, just pondering. I will be completely honest, I want him out of the house. His moods and lack of respect for anyone else in our family is extremely difficult to bear. I find myself getting more and more depressed as he sucks the oxygen out of the room. He holds a lot of anger against us for the years we tried to show him the right path in life and education. He knows it all and no one can tell him anything. He is not going to college and although he is working hard on various job ideas, he really has no direction. I want to live and enjoy my life again. So if we do subsidize rent, it would be to give our daughters and ourselves a peaceful life again. Yet, we would have to make sure its not allowing him to buy weed. And how would I do that? I refuse to get into the bargaining with him and setting up contracts that he will do this and that. Experience has shown me that he will agree to anything but not honor it. Round and round I go on this. Certainly not a right or wrong answer. [/QUOTE]
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